logo
Login Subscribe
Google Play App Store
  • News
    • Obituaries
    • Lifestyle
    • Opinion
  • Sports
  • E-edition
  • Public Notices
  • Calendar
  • Archives
  • Contact
    • Contact Us
    • Advertisers
    • Form Submission
    • About Us
    • News
      • Obituaries
      • Lifestyle
      • Opinion
    • Sports
    • E-edition
    • Public Notices
    • Calendar
    • Archives
    • Contact
      • Contact Us
      • Advertisers
      • Form Submission
      • About Us
Teachers of life
commentary
April 11, 2024
Teachers of life

JLCLUfawui&

LAST 1»

We all have had those special teachers who taught us more than just the core curriculum, they taught us life lessons. These are the teachers of life – the ones who have gone beyond their borders to educate us in ways that will benefit us for the future. Teachers mold us and make us grow. Though a good teacher can teach you the basics, a great teacher will teach you something that you will remember for the rest of your life Growing up I had several teachers who influenced me and taught me valuable lessons in and out of the classroom.

First, there was Mrs. Barbara Clark who was my 4th grade teacher. She always started our day off with the Pledge of Allegiance then a prayer. Why this stands out so much to me I’m not quite sure. Perhaps it was her smile and positivity that she brought to the room each day. You felt her kindness and patience that she demonstrated daily to each and every student in her class and she always gave the best hugs. I was saddened to hear of her recent passing but I am sure of her heavenly reward she is enjoying now.

Another very influential teacher I had in school was Mrs. Linda Rainbolt who was my Creative Writing/English teacher for 6th, 7th and 8th grade. Ironically, I wasn’t crazy about her the first day of class. She was quite strict and everything I wrote she marked up with a red pen and told me I could do better. I can remember thinking “Ok this is a lot better. She won’t have anything to mark up.” Then I’d get my paper back and I’d have red marks all over it. Occasionally, she would even cross out the adjective I had used and put in a more descriptive one. Ironically, that’s how she ended up being one of my favorite teachers. She crossed out my “smartness” and made me “keen and clever.” Who knew I would end up writing for a living a little later in life.

Mrs. Imogene Duvall was also one of my favorite Advanced Math/Algebra teachers. She was always so pleasant and patient as she explained quadratic equations, constants and variables. It’s funny how algebra, much like life, is divided into different subdivisions such as elementary, advanced algebra, abstract, linear and finally commutative algebra. Funny fact, Mrs. Duvall was also a carrier pigeon between Checotah High School and Checotah Middle School because she would bring me little notes from Bobby Rhodes (my husband now but boyfriend then) and I would send other notes back. So, I credit her for marrying him.

I have also had teachers/mentors later in my life too. Ms. Emmy Stidham was one of those mentors that definitely had a defining impact on my life since I started working for the local newspaper. She was always schooling me on the history of Checotah and the uniqueness of the people who had lived here or who still live here. When Ms. Emmy would open up her mouth to tell you a little information for the paper you had better pull out your recorder or grab a pen and notebook. It was amazing that even when she was 95 years old she was still teaching a lot of us how to be leaders in our community by first being a servant to others.

Last but never least, my greatest teacher of all time is my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. He daily teaches me through His Word that what matters in this life is knowing Him personally, asking Him into your heart and fulfilling your purpose in this life. Maybe that’s why saying a prayer in Mrs. Clark’s classroom meant so much to me and why learning how to write in Mrs. Rainbolt’s was preparing me for writing this column and other stories that I do today. Perhaps Mrs. Duvall was part of God’s design so I would later marry the boy I got little notes from in class, while Ms. Emmy was the example of the influential community leader I should inspire to become. Yes, these are just some of my teachers of life and I am grateful that they were intricate parts of His bigger plans for my life. May we all give honor to all of our great teachers of life.

More adoptions, less litters
A: Main, News...
More adoptions, less litters
By LADONNA RHODES STAFF WRITER 
April 23, 2026
Two more city pound dogs found their forever homes through Paws N Claws rescue efforts this week. McIntosh County and abroad definitely need more adoptions and less litters of puppies and kittens. Of ...
this is a test
Checotah daycare case moves forward in district court
A: Main, News...
Checotah daycare case moves forward in district court
April 23, 2026
SHAUNA BELYEU GENERAL MANAGER A Checotah couple accused of abusing children in an in-home daycare appeared April 16 in McIntosh County District Court for a preliminary hearing before Associate Distric...
this is a test
A: Main, News...
Election Board hears contest in county commissioners race
April 23, 2026
The McIntosh County Election Board heard testimony at 10 a.m.Thursday, April 16, in a contest of candidacy filed against District 1 County Commissioner candidate Jeffery Coleman (Mc-Intosh County sher...
this is a test
A: Main, News...
Suspect accused of striking patrol car, fleeing deputies before arrest
By SHAUNA BELYEU GENERAL MANAGER 
April 23, 2026
A McIntosh County man was arrested April 16 on a complaint of assault and battery with a dangerous weapon, according to a probable cause affidavit. Steven Wayne Smith, 54, of Checotah, was taken into ...
this is a test
A: Main, News...
Senior Send Off and upcoming events
April 23, 2026
It’s hard to believe another school year has already come and is almost gone as seniors prepare for their last days in class, on stages and on the field. Here are a few end of the year events to remem...
this is a test
‘Art in The Park’ to celebrate all mothers
A: Main, News...
‘Art in The Park’ to celebrate all mothers
April 23, 2026
Local artists with the Checotah Art Guild invite the public to celebrate motherhood at their annual “Art in the Park” on Saturday, May 9. The event will take place from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. in Veterans P...
this is a test
ePaper
coogle_play
app_store
Editor Picks
Successful City Wide Spring Trash-Off Day
A: Main, News...
Successful City Wide Spring Trash-Off Day
April 23, 2026
The City of Checotah and Checotah Chamber had a successful City Wide Spring Trash Off Day on Saturday, April 18. Around 13 Chamber and city personnel as well as 14 local volunteers, young and old, joi...
this is a test
Maura McDermott Wood chosen Beta Sigma Phi Sister of the Year
News
Maura McDermott Wood chosen Beta Sigma Phi Sister of the Year
April 23, 2026
Local Beta Sigma Phi members have chosen Maura McDermott Wood as Sister of the Year. An active member, Maura designs and produces an attractive and historic yearbook for the local president each year....
this is a test
News
Chaney’s Pizza coming to Checotah
April 23, 2026
Chaney’s Pizza announced that in light of changing circumstances, they were finalizing their current operations in Eufaula on Friday, April 17 and opening a new chapter at a new location in Checotah. ...
this is a test
FFA Speech Contest draws record-breaking entries
News
FFA Speech Contest draws record-breaking entries
April 23, 2026
On Monday, April 6, Checotah FFA hosted their annual Speech Contest with a record-breaking 599 speeches entered and judged throughout the evening. “What an incredible day it was!” stated FFA advisor Z...
this is a test
Studio 45: A new creative space bringing artists, ideas and community together in downtown Eufaula
Opinion
Studio 45: A new creative space bringing artists, ideas and community together in downtown Eufaula
By MICHAEL BARNES 
April 23, 2026
On April 12, Studio 45 opened its doors in Eufaula, offering something more than a new venue. It is a place where creativity can gather, take form, and begin to take shape. Just off Main Street on Sel...
this is a test
Facebook
Twitter
Tweets
Twitter
Tweets

MCINTOSH COUNTY DEMOCRAT
300-A S. Broadway
Checotah, OK
74426

(918) 473-2313

This site complies with ADA requirements

© 2023 Mcintosh Democrat

  • Contact
  • Privacy
  • Accessibility Policy